The deal is that it's now called "Instant Message Notification" in the admin panel. Seeing as how AIM is now integrated, myself along with probably a few others (as I've seen a few other threads here about this) have just been confusled by the verbage! lol
I switched this to 'On" and now all is well.
Hope this helps others.

Thanks fo Floris for the fix!
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