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  • what is cuddling, exactly??? :confused:

    i kinda need to know... when someone says 'can we cuddle next week' what do they mean?

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    That depends on who's asking - your girlfriend or your jail cellmate?
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    • #3
      Just sitting there and holding each other I suppose, not having sex or anything.

      And I think the world is about to end... Steve told a joke!

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      • #4
        hmm WELL since i'm a girl, neither.... its this dude at school

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        • #5
          lol sorry if i seem upset, its sort of because my friend just told me its 'hard core hugging' i'm not ready for that ... !!! ... plus i already said yes ;_;

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          • #6
            Don't do ANYTHING you aren't comfortable with, and don't allow yourself to get in a situation that is not right for you. You have a right to say 'No'. Don't be afraid to use it.
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            • #7
              thank you i will

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              • #8
                Just say no. For the guy to actually ask is quite sad.
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                • #9
                  Cuddling is usually pretty average, basic stuff, but to ask for it is kind of weird. Suspicious even? Couldn't say.
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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by santa_fe_rose
                    i kinda need to know... when someone says 'can we cuddle next week' what do they mean?
                    It depends. Ask him.

                    He probably wants more than to cuddle. Guys are like that.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Andrew111888
                      Steve told a joke!
                      He did? .......... He did! [feigning amazement]

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by santa_fe_rose
                        hmm WELL since i'm a girl, neither.... its this dude at school
                        if ... some-dude-at-school ... is asking to cuddle, chances are things are being rushed a bit.

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                        • #13
                          Based on my experience, I have set 2 rules for myself in relationships:

                          1) Don't let it get physical too soon.

                          2) Don't get involved with women who pursue you.

                          In my experience, getting physical too soon ruins the relationship. The second rule probably doesn't apply to you because you are a girl, and it is generally the girl's sexual role to be pursued.

                          So if you don't know him that well, or haven't known him for that long, then don't "cuddle."

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Steve Machol
                            That depends on who's asking - your girlfriend or your jail cellmate?
                            ROFLMAO Steve!
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                            • #15
                              LOL @ some of the responses here. But back to the point at hand, a cuddle between two people is a sign of affection IMO. It should have no meaning other than comfort and affection.

                              To fondle in the arms; hug tenderly.
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